Guide Them™

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Guide Them™ is a Spirit-rooted, love-centered method that helps Christian women navigate relational tension with clarity, self-control, and peace. It equips you to guide conversations toward mutual resolve without force, pressure, or emotional reactivity — even when the situation feels personal or overwhelming.

Guide Them™ is for women who want to honor God, be at peace, and communicate with maturity when something isn’t sitting right in a relationship. It’s for the woman who feels the tension, senses the misalignment, and wants to address it with wisdom instead of avoidance or anxiety.

When tension goes unaddressed, relationships suffer. Anxiety grows. Misunderstandings multiply. Guide Them™ gives you a way to stay grounded in the Spirit, speak truth with love, and create space for real understanding. It helps you move from inner turmoil to calm clarity — and from relational strain to mutual peace.

1. Anchor Yourself First — You acknowledge Spirit before you speak. You get clear on what’s bothering you and why, so you enter the conversation from peace, not pressure.

2. Host the Conversation — You create a safe, calm environment — emotionally and spiritually — where both people can show up with dignity. You set the tone, not by controlling the other person, but by embodying maturity and self-control.

3. Name What’s Not Resonating — You gently articulate what feels off, unclear, or misaligned. You speak truth without accusation — asking if what you’re observing is correct so clarity can emerge.

4. Guide Toward Mutual Resolve — You invite the other person into clarity. You explore what each of you needs. You move toward understanding, peace, and a shared path forward — without forcing an outcome.

Guide Them™ is built on the belief that peace comes from truth, and truth comes from the heart. When you get to the heart of what’s really going on — beneath the reactions, assumptions, and emotions — resolution becomes possible.

Guide Them™ was born from Susan’s own transformation — the moment she realized that peace isn’t found in silence or avoidance, but in Spirit-led clarity. She learned how to approach tension with maturity, how to speak without fear, and how to guide conversations toward understanding instead of conflict. Now she teaches women the same path.